Well this is a simple guide to see if ur pc has a direct connection to any ip or server!

1. First or all, close IE, msn, uTorrent etc. (not antivirus!) Anything that may have a direct connection to the net.

2. Open Cmd ("command promt" if u cant find it go to "run" and then type in "cmd" or just make a search for cmd)

3. Now when u've cmd opened, type in "netstat -ano"
Now u should have lot's of ip's on cmd. At the right side, look for where it says ”ESTABLISHED" The other's (LISTENING, TIME_WAIT etc) are not important. Just the "ESTABLISHED" dude has a direct contact to ur pc!

4. At the very right side of cmd u see PID (process id) Look for the "ESTABLISGED" connections PID. Now let's find that bit*h!

5. Open "Task manager" (Press "Ctrl + Shift + Esc", the faster way or just "Alt+ Ctrl + Del")

6. Go to Process > Show > Choose colomn and check the "PID" box, and press ok. Now the process-ID should appear same as it was in cmd.
Now look for the same "PID" which said "ESTABLISGED in Cmd and find it's process name. In my case the dude was "Java client" this time! :/ But if u find anything suspicious just kill the process and that's it. U can also trace em if u like! (It’s easy to find ur friends ip via msn by this, which u should not do!)