Originally Posted by srn

Hi thebell520,

Can you share some examples with us?

Much appreciated

Maybe this is off-topic, but lets hope admins/moderators wont be angry at us

Well, when I signed up there. I expected to change my life, but it ended up I suffered more than before entering it. I was a failure, had a low paying job, feared everyone, feared to talk to people, and failed generally at everything i did.

Today I am confident i can talk to anyone on the streets or other places, I have a small online business which gives me about 4000$ passive income per month (after taxes) and I am in good shape. After taking proper action. This change has happened in only 8 months! Because I took proper action to improve myself.


Instant self-change is not possible, but fast self-change is possible. If you want to change yourself, you need to go through a struggle. It's really a hard struggle, this is why so many fail to change themselves. It's a good idea to change the environment, so your brain does not base on memory and want's to go back to old habits. The human brain is a really powerful thing, a man has possibilities of doing things we are not even capable imagining, but these possibilities are limited, because all the bullshit the society, parents, culture has hypnotized us believe. Seriously all the problems you have in life, is something you have been 'hypnotized/conditioned' to believe. Changing yourself is a struggle to transform negative emotions into positive, changing thoughts etc. It's hard work but worth it. It's the emotions that are the main problem. Deep-rooted 'negative emotions' they must be transformed into positive, and that is really hard thing to do.

You need to go search by yourself for what fits you best. The important factor is that what you read is scientifically proven or the author is really successful by himself. Many self-development authors are not successful by themselves, but only by the books, they have written. Amazon is the best place to scope out the books, you can scope a book out without buying it. Read about the authors you find interesting, that written a book you found, is he really a successful or just a snake-oil that want's to make money? So remember the bad things you experience is something you have been hypnotized to experience. Everything is really just a 'hypnosis'. Reseach the books, scope it out, has it scientific references.

My recommendations are:

Felix Dennis - How to get rich: This book is written by a really good guy, that has been truly successful and extremely rich by himself, and he explains how he got so successful. it can be used for any goal you want to achieve. This is the only book I have now for economic success. The 'Think and Grow rich' book is really bullshit after you grasp what Felix Dennis is talking about.

Scientific Therapy books:

Russ Harris - The Happiness Trap
Dr. Steve Peters - The Chimp Paradox
Jay Earley - Self-Therapy
Charles L. Whitfield M.D - Healing The Child Within

These are the books I currently use, I have them all physically, the authors deserve the money, but I think you can find all the books on bib. But research by yourself, find a book you understand good and can work with.

But remember changing yourself is a struggle 'you' must do. Do not expect: "Yeah whola,I start with the Russ Harris book, and I am going to be successful". This is what all people expect on the .click trackers. That is why they fail. You must struggle hard and not the book for you. Read about the most successful guys, they say all the same thing; "They worked extremely hard for the success".

Hope it will help you!