Please help

I would truly appreciate if i could get some suggestions on what are the best free private torrent sites for movies and tv

There are many. But try IPT it is very good site with perfect content and easy to maintain ratio because of available freeleech on site..

So I would suggest you to try IPT first.

To be fair, most private trackers are pretty good... So get yourself on any to start with. But as @jaqenhgar suggests IPT is a very good site!